It’s My Way … No Highway Option

We decided to get our carpets cleaned yesterday and it looks a whole lot better now. It seriously looks like a brand new house….I love it.  Ern switched the furniture around and brought his office into the living room area cause its a good size room.  We put all the gym equipment in the room where the office was and it looks great.  I am so excited to clean everything up and finish it today.

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Yes I have had an incredibly bad day here at the office.  It’s been the worst day as far as phone calls and maintenance problems since I’ve been here and I’ve been here for two years. It’s craziness.  First of all I have had this one lady calling me all day long because her PVB pipe in the backyard was leaking and causing a flood that was coming into her house.  Her fault for not letting us know sooner and when she called the office, she would get transfered to voicemail and not leave a message.  Im not psychic…how would I know she was calling.  She just kept calling back over and over again.  Then the guy I sent out to her property was taken down by SWAT because they were raiding the house next door to her house and they thought that my contractor was the guy that lived in the raided house.  Retarded. Plus I had a drunk tenant calling me over and over again because he was impatient and couldn’t wait for the contractor to make his way out there.  Like he is the only tenant we have to service.  Please!!!!  Everyone at my office is having the same kind of day.  It must be the weather. LOL. Although I do have to say that the rain and clouds and thunderstorms are making me be in a great mood aside from all this craziness that is going on at work. So thank you for all the overcast I do appreciate it greatly.

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I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be.

I believe that statement 100% .  If you in a relationship and you truly love someone then this is the way you need to feel about your significant other.  I see so many people that are in constrictive relationships where they are either trying to change the other person or they are the one that is being persuaded to change.  If you truly love someone you should love them for who they are and respect their unique personality.  They are who they are and no one can honestly change anyone that doesn’t want to change.  Ultimatums are the worst when it comes to a relationship that has the hopes of lasting forever.  Never ever give the person you love an ultimatum because half of the time that person will not satisfy what you really want anyway if you demand it of them.  They have to want to change on their own and for themselves alone.  If you don’t like something about your love then you need to voice you concern and be honest with them.  Let them know that it bothers you and if they change it on their own then that is their choice. But if they continue with those habits that bother you and it is something that you cannot live with then it was just not meant to be with that person.  At least you voiced your opinion and concern about it and they know that it bothers you.  If they are not willing to change then you should end the relationship if you absolutely cannot live with it.  A relationship partly consists of what you are willing to accept about your love.  If you cannot accept that person for who and what they are then you should not waste your time or their time.

Unconditional love is the acceptance of ther person you are with as a whole.  Love that person no matter how they are in any situation.  Understand why they are the way they are, even when they are not what you expect or when they happen to make mistakes.  Nobody is perfect and everyone makes a bad choice once in awhile.  That is life and life is full of unpredictable moments.  You just have to be ready for them and never expect to have anything go as planned.

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Happy Friday the 13th!!!

“On October 13, 1307, a day so infamous that Friday the 13th would become a synonym for ill fortune, officers of King Philip IV of France carried out mass arrests in a well-coordinated dawn raid that left several thousand Templars — knights, sergeants, priests, and serving brethren — in chains, charged with heresy, blasphemy, various obscenities, and homosexual practices. None of these charges was ever proven, even in France — and the Order was found innocent elsewhere — but in the seven years following the arrests, hundreds of Templars suffered excruciating tortures intended to force ‘confessions,’ and more than a hundred died under torture or were executed by burning at the stake.”

This is the history in which Friday the 13th derived from.  Crazy how history works out huh.  Anyway I enjoy this day….try and make it a good day everyone!

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Today is 7/11/07 and it is the 80th birthday for the 7-11 store.  Happy Birthday to you wonderful 7-11!!! Thank you for your slurpees and taquitos…mmmm.  We are all thankful for your convenience and low prices.  Congratulations and we know you will be around longer than any convenience store anywhere.

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It is July 4th and we are preparing to have a barbecue and some friends over.  I cant wait to see Javi’s face when he sees that fireworks.  He will enjoy it I think.  Next year it may be a little different cause he will be a year and a half…lol.

Well everyone have a wonderful fireworks party!

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So Friday night was wild and crazy…we had so much fun! Got tipsy and sang songs for the whole world to hear.  We audio recorded the whole entire night practically.  It was a blast…I broke my glasses cause I was feeling sick and they fell off my head and I ran inside to the bathroom and stepped on them on the way.  But my babe Ern glued them back together for me and they are working just fine again.  He is the best! Anyway we all had fun and cant wait to do it again sometime soon!

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Im so glad it’s finally Friday….Whhhoooohhoooo!!! We get to have fun this weekend and relax.  I love the weekends cause I get to spend every single hour with my boys.  It’s great!  I do some laundry and clean up the house usually…reorganize sometimes.  I know I will be taking Quinton to hang out with my cousin Knowa one day this weekend.  They love playing together.  Well Happy Friday to all!

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Your basic aims and approach to life are in harmony, and the mutual respect you feel forms the basis of an excellent friendship or partnership. You feel understood, appreciated, recognized, and affirmed by one another. You stimulate, vitalize, motivate, and believe in each other. Successful cooperation in achieving goals and accomplishing tasks is highlighted. You make an excellent working team and you are able to assist each other in achieving specific, concrete goals.

This is another compatibility reading for Ern and I. It explains us very well. Its amazing how dead on alot of these readings can be. We are great for each other!

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Okay so I have worked out a fitness plan that is easy to fit into my schedule…cause technically I only have about an hour a day to be able to do this. My workout ranges from 25-45 minutes…at most 1 hour on some days depending on if I want to push myself harder that day. If I exercise 5 days a week at least for about an hour a day I should be able to see results in 5 weeks. I am taking tips from the 5 factor diet which apparently works for most people. I would also have to eat 5 small meals/snacks a day to be 100% into the 5 factor diet but I am slowly working on that.

First I do 20 minutes or so of warm up cardio, such as cycling or treadmill. Then I do about 5 minutes or so of upper body strength. I do 5 minutes of lower body strength. Then core midsection exercises for about 5 minutes. Last but not least I do the fat burning cardio for about 10 minutes or longer if need be that particular day. Then I do some Cool Down Meditation exercises such as stance punches and pivot kicks and stretches for my legs and back.

Technically it doesn’t matter what order you do your exercises, just as long as you workout at least 5 days a week for at least 25 minutes a day. You should always give yourself a rest day or two.

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